God is with us during every part of our lives--while cleaning, cooking, doing the fifth load of laundry for the day, or playing pretend ambulance for the tenth time. Often it's during the most mundane tasks that He lets us know He is there with us. It's at that moment when we realize that there can be no "ordinary" moments for people who live their lives with Jesus.
Friday, May 29, 2009
Home!
Zachary did pretty well. He played a lot and at times was frustrated with no place to really walk around, but slept for 9 of the 16 hours we were on the plane. We built a little tent over his seat which kept it dark for him.
So good to be home. Thank you for all your comments, prayers and well-wishes. We checked our email everyday to see what you wrote. Helped us to feel connected while we were gone.
Feel free come on over and meet Zachary. Just give us a call so we make sure it's not during nap time ;)
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
more zoo pics
Zoo & safari
Today we will be going to an "exit meeting" with our agency where we will learn about the final steps of our trip. We will also be getting Zachary's visa and going to an "oath taking" ceremony. From there we get on the train for Hong Kong. Last week there was a case of the H1N1 (swine flu) discovered on the train in Hong Kong. We have heard that the officials are being very cautious as a result. We anticipate having our temp checked several times on the train. Please pray that no one on our train has a temp!
We'll stay over night at the airport hotel and fly out at 12:45p Thursday morning arriving in Chicago at 2:15pm Thursday. That doesn't seem to add up on a 14.5 hour flight. We'll get home at 6:15pm on Thursday. Really, really looking forward to being in our house versus a hotel room!
We look forward to introducing you all to Zachary in the upcoming weeks. We are hoping to get us all adjusted to US time this coming weekend.
Monday, May 25, 2009
Medical Check
Yesterday we borrowed (yes, for free) a stroller from a local store. Zach seems to like the rides and mom and dad's muscles and joints are liking the relief as well! We took a stroll down the road to a German restaurant for supper tonight. The food was a nice change from the Asian foods of late. We are looking forward to meat and potato meals back home!
Zachary has slowed down a bit on his eating. He must have figured out that we are going to provide him with what he needs. We still get a little bit of gruff from him when we take his bib off, but much less than a week ago. We even found some foods that he does not like (potatoes, carrots, and yogurt).
It's hard to believe that we just met this little guy one week ago. He has really changed over the week. This Psalms seems appropriate as we look back on what God has done.... (Psalms 29 from Psalms Now by Leslie F Brandt)
We need to give credit to whom credit is due.
God is alive, and He deserves our perpetual praises.
There is a reason for rejoicing.
There is a God to worship and love.
The skies and the forests manifest His beauty.
The sweep of the ocean represent His power.
The gigantic bodies suspended in our universe portray His majesty.
The wind and the rain, the lightening and the thunder, the creatures that inhabit
the land, the flowers that brighten our lives, all this comes from the hand of God.
The glory is not ours but God's.
Even the achievements of human hand, mind, and machine come through the wisdom
and power of the eternal God.
The contributions of science;
the fields ripe for harvest;
the control of water, air, and space;
the establishment of our great institutions--
these also reflect the glory of God.
Let us give credit to whom credit is due.
Sunday, May 24, 2009
The Big Toy Room
Have to give a big thumbs up to the toy company Mattel. There is big room in the hotel full of Mattel toys where parents can take their kids and turn them loose. Zach loves it and it's been good to see how he interacts with other kids. Downtime in our room has been spent wrestling and tickling. We love to hear Zach's laughs during these times.
On Saturday, we had an orientation with our agency where we turned in some of the paperwork we've been toiling over for years. Good to see it put to use.
Today (Sunday) we went to church. Both services were full (Nancy went to the first, I went to the second). The services were somewhat similar to what we do at home. Although the first was in Chinese and the second was both English and Chinese.
Tonight we had supper with the group of families from Holt. It has been fun to watch how the kids are attaching to the parents. Every family in our group has a child from Holt's Children of Promise program. This is a program established to help kids with special medical needs find a forever family. What a blessing for the parents and children both!
Friday, May 22, 2009
Travel to Guangzhou
At one point at the park a gentlemen asked us about Zachary which brought others over to hear what was being said. Our guide was with us and translated everything. They said he was a lucky boy and gave us the 'thumbs up' which we've received several times now. This happened twice at the park.
Today (Friday) we traveled from Taiyuan to Guangzhou. It was about a three hour plane ride and Zachary's first (and our first w/ a two year old). He squawked a few times, but really did very well. We were able to provide entertainment (aka Cheerios and tearing a barf bag to shreds) and he played his standard game of loading blocks into a bag and taking them out again. The two cities vary a lot from one another. Taiyuan (population 3 million) is an industrial city where as Guangzhou (population 10 million) is a city thriving on trade. We are staying at the White Swan Hotel which is separated from the mainland by a water way, so it's sort of on an island. There is little traffic and nice places to walk. Much quieter than Taiyuan which was a lot like New York City in terms of traffic and honking horns. The White Swam is a famous for housing people adopting in China due to its proximity to the American Consulate where we will be doing more paperwork for what will ultimately be his visa.
Zachary continues to blossom each day, showing us more and more personality. Tonight momma received the best gift ever---a kiss smack on her lips from her son!
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
Safe Enough to Walk!
Zachary's appetite has not slowed down a bit. In fact, he ate more than mom and dad at bfast this morning. The hotel here has a good mix of typical Chinese bfast food and American food. He likes to eat dumplings, stewed buns, eggs and fruit. You should see him when he is motioning for more food. He takes his pointer finger and politely taps his plate. We cracked up laughing when he started doing this. We are trying to teach him the sign for "more" instead.....
We went on a tour of Jinci Temple today. It was first built in the Western Zhour Dynsaty (the 11th century BC) to worship Duke SHunyu of Jin State. The temple has remains of sculptures and stone tablets from several Dynsasties. It was interesting to hear stories of how the Chinese people worshiped these gods. Even today while we were there we saw people paying respects to the Gods and leaving treasures at their altar.
This morning we met a few people from the US and Britain. It was a relief to speak English at full speed!
We'll be leaving for Guanzhou on Friday morning for the final leg of our trip. We'll get all of Zach's visa paperwork done there. We now have his passport.
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
He's warming up!
After that we got to experience Walmart. Let's just say that it is comparable to the Walmart's in the US!
We have gotten the chance to play a few more games with Zachary (rolling the ball, peek-a-boo with his book). We have seen some more smiles and lots more eye contact. He tried to teach Mom & Dad a new game this morning, which involved throwing his little truck and then having us chase after it ;)
He loves to be held. In fact we basically hold him all the time except when sleeping or eating. That allows us the chance for some good bonding. He is an excellent eater! He probably was only allowed a limited amount of food at the orphanage, so now he is in heaven eating as much as he can. We are trying to figure out how much to let him eat at each meal. He basically eats anything we are eating and drinks from a bottle.
At lunch today we ate at a Shanghainese restaurant in the hotel. They must have thought we were making a mess at the meal because they brought us 3 wet wash clothes and a pair of plastic gloves (must have thought it was strange that mom used her hands to feed him at times).
By the end of the day, Zach was showing a lot more personality, pointing and squealing, babbling on about everything he was seeing and doing and lots of eye contact.
I prayed for this child, and the LORD has granted me what I asked of him. So now I give him to the LORD. For his whole life he will be given over to the LORD" (1 Samuel 1:26-27).
Monday, May 18, 2009
We got him!
I am having trouble getting photos to attach to my email (which is how I'm posting), so I put a link to photos below.
We'll give more details later, but the short version is that he was pretty scared and would not make any eye contact, didn't move, didn't make a sound. After we got back to the hotel, we have him a few toys and got him giggling a little bit playing ball. Sometimes we couldn't tell if he was laughing or crying. I think it was both. I don't think he wanted to let his guard down.
For photos, click on this link.
We'll write more later. Have a meeting in the morning (Tues) to get his passport in the works.
Sunday, May 17, 2009
Updated pictures of Zach
Also received details on what he eats, his eating schedule, sleeping schedule, nap, etc. So now we have some background on his routine.
We leave the hotel at 5:30am tomorrow morning (Monday) to go to the airport to travel to Taiyuan in Shanxi province SW of Beijing.
We are being taken care of at every turn by our agency. They make sure we know our schedule, when to be where, who our guide will be, what to eat, what not to eat, etc. And they speak very good English. Takes all the pressure off of being in a unfamiliar place.
Hopefully, next time we post, it will be with Zach in tow. We are scheduled to get him at 2pm on Monday.
Saturday, May 16, 2009
Beijing and the Great Wall
Our first stop was the Great Wall of China. It is mind-boggling how difficult this must have been to build. It goes on as far as the eye can see in either direction and up steep mountains. Our tour-guide "Happy" told us that it is 8,841 km long (or about 5,500 miles). That's why it's one of the 7 wonders of the world!
Next we went to Hutong; an old neighborhood in Beijing. Parts of Hutong are 500 years old (consider that America was founded about 230 years ago). The streets are very narrow and residents do not have bathrooms in their houses, they share community bathrooms. Mostly older generations live there, as the younger generations want their own bathrooms. We got to tour this area riding in a rickshaw (a bicycle w/ a "carriage" on the back).
Tonight we visited "Snack Street" filled with such dilectibles as fried sheep kidneys, something that looked like fried mice, and squid on a stick (eat your heart out Iowa State Fair). We opted to eat at McDonald's.
Overall, Beijing is very western. Most people speak English and the newer parts of the city look just like American cities. You wouldn't believe all the bicycles here. Happy tells us that there are about 10 million cars and 9 million bikes in Beijing alone. Wow! Guess how many helmets we saw....0!
Sunday (tomorrow) we have an orientation where we will get more information on Zach and perhaps a new picture. One of the families in our group received their little girl a couple of days ago, so playing with her today has made us even more anxious to get to Monday. The other 3 families get their child on Monday as well, just from a different area in China than us.
Adventures in Flying
We had been wondering which direction we would fly to reach Beijing; east or west. It's about the same distance either way. However, we received a nice surprise when we took off and realized we were headed north.
Our flight went directly over the North Pole, so we were able to enjoy some scenery during the flight. Oh, and it was broad daylight the entire way.
At the Beijing airport, we were asked to remain on the plane while quarantine officials came on board and took everyone's temperature (remember the H1N1 virus is still out there). I would estimate there were about 300 people on board. So everyone was 'shot' on the forehead with some kind of laser thermometer. About 15 rows in front of us a man was running a fever. So we had to wait while new group of quarantine officials came on board. These officials were completely decked out in what one passenger called "Ghost Buster suits." It took around two hours to get all of this done.
As they did their work my only thought was that they were going to quarantine the entire plane. However, they simply took the 10 or so rows around him and those people got off the plane first and were rechecked and released. The rest of us deplaned after them.
We slept only a few minutes on the flight, so we were exhausted when we finally got to the hotel at 6pm China time (5am Central time). That means we were traveling for closing to 24 hours straight. Yikes! After eating and showering we passed out and slept all night--which is day time in Iowa.
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
Leaving Tomorrow!
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
When Love Takes You In
Zachary--This song says it all. Know that we're dreaming of you and counting down the days until we meet!
I know you've heard the stories
But they all sound too good to be true
You've heard about a place called home
But there doesn't seem to be one for you
So one more night you cry yourself to sleep
And drift off to a distant dream
Where love takes you in and everything changes
A miracle starts with the beat of a heart
When love takes you home and says you belong here
The loneliness ends and a new life begins
When love takes you in
And somewhere while you're sleeping
Someone else is dreaming too
Counting down the days until
They hold you close and say I love you
And like the rain that falls into the sea
In a moment what has been is lost in what will be
When love takes you in everything changes
A miracle starts with the beat of a heart
And this love will never let you go
There is nothing that could ever
cause this love to lose its hold
When love takes you in everything changes
A miracle starts with the beat of a heart
When love takes you home and says you belong here
The loneliness ends and a new life begins
When love takes you in it takes you in for good
When love takes you in
Steven Curtis Chapman \ When Love Takes You In
Love you ~ Mom & Dad
Monday, May 11, 2009
Last Minute Details
As the moment of our departure nears, we are going over some last minute details: Brushing up on a little Chinese and acquainting our cats with the culture. Actually, we've already been warned that attempting to speak Chinese will get us a few snickers but not much else. Fortunately, we'll have an English speaking guide with us the entire time.