Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Mason--Day 2

We had a busy morning--breakfast, grocery shopping, then the adoption finalization appointments. When we came back into our hotel room, Mason completely melted down. Of course we don't know exactly what's going on in his mind, but if we had to guess we think that he was realizing that he's not going back to his "home"--he was missing his "normal". There wasn't anything we could do to console him, so Momma just held him and let him cry......he cried himself to sleep. Here he is in the make-shift bed (chair).

He slept a few hours and woke up a bit happier, but still very serious & cautious. We headed outside to a small playground at our hotel. It had several small slides and a few swings. Based on his reaction, we don't think he'd ever seen a playground before. He wanted nothing to do with it. He pulled Momma away when she tried to get him close to it. If other kids came to play with it, he watched them very closely, but still didn't want to get on any of it.
Instead we walked around and around outside. We must have done 40 laps out in the 1,000% humidity:)  He was a little man on a mission, pulling Momma wherever he wanted to go. Notice he's pulling only Momma. He won't let Daddy carry him or hold his hand. He does like to play cars or blocks with Daddy. He even lets Daddy feed him and change him. But not quite sure if he should let Daddy hold him.
By the very end of the day, we think we saw a few half-grins. He's makin' us work hard for 'em though.
 Keep bein' strong & courageous, Mason. Remember, you are an overcomer. You've already overcome so many obstacles. This seems like another obstacle in your way, but we pray that your heart will soon be at peace.

6 comments:

thelochnerfive said...

Congratulations!! Your email sent to us before you left dawned on me this morning, as we have been thinking of you since last Friday! Your entries brought tears to my eyes...and we are so excited for you and can't wait to welcome Mason into the neighborhood! :) I hope that his little grins become more constant for you in the coming days!! He sure is adorable and Zach is going to have SO much fun with his brother! :)

Freeman Family said...

I too have tears in my eyes reading these! I can't imagine all the emotions all of you are having. His grins will continue to get more frequent and before long he will be telling you how much he loves you and it will melt your heart. Praying for strength for all of you as you continue to get to know each other.

Football and Fried Rice said...

Oh, my heart breaks, too, imagining that sweet Mason has no clue that you are his new normal. But I have a suspicion that he will discover this soon enough and have a peace. And then the grins will come a little more freely!

Mya also slept on the chair/ottoman during our china trip.. For some reason the crib (which she had slept in before we got her) freaked her out and she did NOT want to sleep any where near us. She got over it though :-)

Denise Obrecht said...

Just got on to see the new pictures of Mason - he looks so big! So adorable and we are so happy for you guys! Can see you smiling as you type the messages. Enjoy these new days together - God is good!

jenny said...

Bless his sweet little heart! praying that each day brings you all closer together and brings Mason more peace. Enjoy these days getting to know each other. brings back great memories to me. thanks so much for sharing your journey with us. we can't wait to check in later today.

Many Blessings,

Jenny

Lisa A : Izabella said...

Sweet Mason! Day Three is a magical day--or so it seems--and I pray those half-grins are a hint of the opening that will happen tomorrow. I can't wait to hear how God is comforting his heart--ever so gently--just like your LOVE and your ARMS.

I love the pics of him directing you to where he wants to go. Clearly he feels safe to check out all these things he's never seen before--with your hand in his. That is so brave and courageous and trusting of him. Amazing.

My heart melts when I see a new family together--but your post are especially sweet--Looking forward to meeting this sweet little guy--and can't wait to see him meet his little brother--what a HUGE sense of comfort that will bring him. And that Zach is so precious--he will be a great BIG BROTHER.

Praying for continued gentle progress.

Love and God Bless--

Lisa